I am writing in response to analysis of the SRA diversity survey relating to the progress of women. I appreciate I may be in a minority of one, but I have frequently felt frustrated that there is an assumption in the survey that every female non-partner has a problem with that situation.

Nowhere does the survey ask: are you happy with your position within the firm? Do you feel discriminated against on grounds of sex? Have you been offered partnership – and refused it? Or perhaps the most basic question – do you want partnership?

I am a mature entrant, nearing 18 years’ qualified, and work part-time in a small high street firm. I am not a partner. I have pretty full autonomy over how I conduct my hours, files, clients and so on, and give extra when I can for my own peace of mind.

 Have I been offered partnership? Yes, three times, in different firms. Do I seek it? No.

I took a conscious decision to retrain as a solicitor. But I did not decide that I wished to run my own business, which in a small high street firm is what partnership entails. I decided to prioritise my main job – being a mother – and enjoy working part-time as a solicitor (mainly within school hours).  

Why should that be a problem? I am not at all old-fashioned and have not been discriminated against. I have my own mind. Yet I am no doubt lumped in with the statistics on ‘under-achieving’ female solicitors.

I am ‘achieving’ perfectly well by balancing work/life and my personal goals as I wish – thanks, I should add, to some astute partners (mainly male) in various firms who appreciate that retaining good staff requires treating them as individuals and meeting their needs flexibly.

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